I will remember you always / Nora Brown (Aunt Nora )Read >>
I will remember you always / Nora Brown (Aunt Nora )
Chris The time I knew you was just too short. I have visited with you in my dreams and you have touched my life in ways it has never been touched before. I was blessed to have spoken to you on the phone only weeks before you left us.
I know you are singing in heaven watching over Samuel and the other brothers and sisters that live with you. You are being a great big brother and taking care of them until your mom can get there to do it. I know your family misses. Know that you extended family here in Michigan miss you too.
Heaven must be so amazing. I know that I will be there some day. Please look for me as I would love for your smile to be one of the first ones I see. I know you are happy. I know you are whole. I know your heart is full and I know that in heaven you can have all the bacon you want.
Today we may weep for our loss. But we also stand bound together with family and true friends as we remember your life. It has been long hard years with many tears and lots of laughter as we have spent remembering and forgiving. In your death something happen to us as a family. You gave us more hope and joy than you would of known on earth. I know you know the depth of our love. I know. you know. That is what brings me such peace on days like this. I feel sorry for the people who lied and interfered in our lives when it came to you. I know for me walking in forgiveness and not bitterness took time but now I can sing and am free because I have no aught with any of them what so ever. I pray that they can find true inner peace as we have.
Music is being sung in memory of you. An album is in the midst with 4 tracks recorded and your songs you wrote are being sung and recorded. Rising from the sashes is what it is all about. Having true friends to go through the good and bad is what has kept us going; as well as the grace of God...I am in awe. Chris you make me smile and we carry on your calling. Your words and music will not go unheard.
Your mom misses you and your family does too. I was honored to be your mom. I am blessed.
The joy you bring... / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom)
Your memories are bringing me much joy and peace. Today I got to finally record and sing my song. It is on a CD Chris. I am not letting your vision die in vain. You would be proud! This is now my third song to my CD and now I will be working withthe songs you wrote and bringing them to to life again. I miss you so much. the pain never stops...it just stays and we learn to strive. Grief is odd. Most dorks do not know what and how grief works but I do. You let it come and you let it go. You do not fight it, you invite it and the best things happen. Your heart heals and your heart remembers lots of things that make your heart smile. Close
THINKING ABOUT YOU AGAIN / Tim Lambert (Friend/mentor)
Hello again my friend..... Times like this morning bring you to my mind. I am wondering again this morning what you are up to around the Throne? I can still see that smile (smerk) you would give me when we passed. The thump in the side. What a joy it is knowing it won't be that long before we see each other again. No regrets my friend. Lots of memories that refuse to get old. I remember seeing you at the hospital but you didn't see me did you? You were already with your best friend weren't you! HA! You are becoming more intimate with the presence of God than I can understand down here I know. I miss you yes I do. A good friend and gifted annointed student. You were the most failthful in the class, other than my son Zach and I made him come!!! HA!. I will not ever forget that funny deer in the headlights look when I'd bust off into something tough, but you never stopped till you had it to the best of your ability. You have a legacy Chris and you will live in the hearts of everyone you touched. Save me a place up close!! Love you my very dear friend..... Tim
Today we celebrated your life! We remembered our favorite times with you and shared them with each other. We got 19 beautiful balloons and one mylar...Beccah picked it out. We then took our hands and gathered in a circle and each of us graspped the strings tied to the balloons and we said "Happy Birthday Chris, we love you, we miss you" Then on the count of three we sent our wishes off to heaven as we released the balloons. We watched them go so high...then they were gone. All of us miss you. You will always be a part of us. Grieving never goes away...God's grace just gets bigger.
I am sitting here thinking of all the things you have done to touch so many lives. We went and saw Vaughn Jarrold two weeks ago and he remebered you Chris. He remembered things that i had forgotton you two talked about. He was amazed by the call you had and the legacy you left here. He said even though you were gone from earth...that the Father had you in His presence.
Your passion lives on in all of us. Beccah is playingthe guitar and she said the other day she was taking over where you left off! Chris! I wentto a recording studio and I sung and recorded a track. We finally see what we are suppose to be doing.
We have gone againstthe grain and have been set free in so many ways by breaking off and KNOWING that it is HIM that we follow not man. No man can compare to HIM.
We miss your voice...you will always be a part of who we are and I will always be proud of being your mom.
Chris/ Mrs. Kim
Hey Chris, You are such a precious kid. You were my favorite helper in Childrens Church. You amazed me with your songs in class and your preaching too. You really lit up the room. I will never stop missing you. See you again one day, Mrs. Kim Close
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU CHRIS / SHARON BURTON (FRIEND)Read >>
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU CHRIS / SHARON BURTON (FRIEND)
THANKS FOR ALL THE TIMES YOU HELPED OUT IN CHILDRENS CHURCH AND ALL THE TIMES YOU MADE ME LAUGH AND FOR BEING SUCH A GOOD EXAMPLE TO THE OTHER KIDS. I KNOW YOU ARE DANCING LIKE NOBODY IS WATCHING NOW UP IN HEAVEN, I SAW YOU DANCING THE MOST AWESOME WORSHIP DANCE, LIKE DAVID MUST HAVE DANCED BEFORE THE LORD LONG AGO. I STILL FEEL LIKE CRYING THINKING OF YOU, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART CHRIS, I LOVE YOU, MISS SHARON
A beautiful quote / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom)
<b>“Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” Leo F. Buscaglia
Poem/ Chelle Wilkinson (Mom) And if i go, while you're still here.. By Emily Dickinson
And if i go, while you're still here.. know that I live on, vibrating to a different measure behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me, so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again, both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest and when you need me, just whisper my name in your heart, ....I will be there. Close
Missing you on your birthday. / Beccah Chelle Wilkinson (Sister)Read >>
Missing you on your birthday. / Beccah Chelle Wilkinson (Sister)
I just want you to know that I thought about you a lot today. I know it is your birthday and you have been gone a while now, but I can never forget you. Pictures remind me of you...my memories of you are in my heart and will stay there permenantly.
I will never forgetthe way you lit up everyone's day, like when you would love on Grace and all the other kids. Never leaving anyone out.
When daddy holds me in the rocking chair, it reminds me of you. but even daddy can never make me feel what I felt when you rocked me. I will never forget that.
Another way I remember you is when I participate in other instruments. I tried the trumpet and did not really like it...I loved when we took guitar lessons together. I miss that.
When you use to be here I know everyone can never be perfect but you were a perfect big brother to me. I miss you.
Wow...18. I wonder what you would sound like? Look like? How tall would you be? Would you be graduating college your first year since you got in so early? I wonder about a girl? Would there have been a special one in your life? I wonder what we would be doing to celebrate with you today? I miss your voice so much. I miss hearing you singing and playing your guitar Chris. I know so many people are aching today for the sadness we feel on a day where a beautiful life was born into this world. I can only believe you are safe...not hurting...free. I love you so much son...I never knew a pain in my soul so deep before. Keep watching over us...Happy Birthday Christopher.
My theme song... / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom) What's your theme song? What makes it you?
I was asked this question today and almost did not answer. It was on our forum at www.womens-place.com. I decided to answer it and this is what I said:
Wow, very deep question for me. For the past year and a half I have had to really overcome quite a lot of sadness and grief. I have just come to realize in my life that I will NEVER get over it. It is a part of who I am. I have always been able to rebound fairly quickly. This time it took a different approach. I had to allow my self to become broken but not destroyed. I had to feel everything I needed to feel. I had to hurt, cry, hate, see, feel, taste, listen, forgive and love. I never lost hope, came close but I found myself again. Strong, courageous, caring and loving but also Beautifully Broken...hence the song for me that represents me...
Ashlee Simpson - Beautifully Broken Lyrics
It seems like yesterday that my world fell from the sky
It seems like yesterday I didn't know how hard I could cry It feels like tomorrow I may not get by But I will try I will try Wipe the tears from my eyes I'm beautifully broken And I don't mind if you know it I'm beautifully broken
And I don't care if I show it Everyday is a new day I'm reminded of my past Everytime there's another storm I know that it won't last Every moment I'm filled with hope 'cause I get another chance But I will try I will try
Got nothing Left to hide Without the highs and the lows Where would we go Where would we go
Wow...such a powerful song to me, there are no other words that describe what the death of my oldest son Chris has done for my life. He actually saved my life is so many ways. I miss him so much and wish so hard he was here with me. I know he is in a better place...but in all honesty...it does not make one bit of a difference.
I almost hesitated to post anything emotional but then that would not be giving back to the ones who have been so supportive of me during this time. Sharing and "telling" on your self at times makes you even stronger. You never know whom you touch with you joys, losses and pain. Thanks again! I almost hesitated to post anything emotional but then that would not be giving back to the ones who have been so supportive of me during this time. Sharing and "telling" on your self at times makes you even stronger. You never know whom you touch with you joys, losses and pain. Thanks again!
Quote from my group that I loved... / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom)Read >>
Quote from my group that I loved... / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom) “There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.” Washington Irving Close
Peace/ Chelle Wilkinson (Mom)
Today as I watch the snow fall I think of the wonders of God. How He is the beginning and the end. The wonders of all His creations overwhelm me. Stopping and basking in His beauty has put a peace in my soul. Just how real is He? I see Him everywhere. I see him in sadness and grief. I see him in the wonders of the world he made...I see him in my joy and laughter. I have always known Him. I have always known He was with me. In the past year and a half He has been more real to me than ever. Not that He showed himself to me more...or that He pursued me...or that his touch was more tangible. Nope. It was in my desperate weakness that I broke. I broke and knew that if I was to make it, that I had to pursue Him. That He was real and here. That He was my strength and that He was and is my forever love. How healing to know that when we are really weak He can be strong. How amazing that we have to break...knowing we cannot do it alone. Know we have to become vulnerable to our weakness...to be able to show how broken we are...Jesus comes and lifts us to his chest...holds us tight. Whispers to our soul...weeps with us. Breaths strength into us and never lets go. Never gives up. Wow. I am just amazed by his love and faithfulness.
I so miss my son everyday. It really never gets easier. To be honest I think of him hundreds of times a day. I weep. I scream. I forgive. I love. Chris is always a part of me and our lives. Nothing will ever change that. Nothing. The grief stays but you learn to not allow it to consume you. You embrace that too...you feel and aknowledge it. I do not fight it any longer. Grief has changed me for the better. I took something so horrid and tragic and let it change me into who and what I am now. Jesus has given me Beauty for the Ashes...a rainbow for the rain.
I am a mom of 8 great kids. More to come I am sure. One thing I have learned from my oldest son Chris...is to love every second...every moment you have with your children. Every moment is a treasure... Close
A quote / Michelle Wilkinson (mom) “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.” Leo F. Buscaglia quotes
Over The Rainbow / Michelle Wilkinson (Mother)
This song brought me a sense of peace today, kind of silly but it was just right.
Somewhere over the rainbow Way up high There's a land that I heard of Once in a lullaby
Somewhere over the rainbow Skies are blue And the dreams that you dare to dream Really do come true
Some day I'll wish upon a star And wake up where the clouds are far behind me Where troubles melt like lemondrops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me
Somewhere over the rainbow Bluebirds fly Birds fly over the rainbow Why then, oh why can't I? Some day I'll wish upon a star And wake up where the clouds are far behind me Where troubles melt like lemondrops Away above the chimney tops That's where you'll find me
Somewhere over the rainbow Bluebirds fly Birds fly over the rainbow Why then, oh why can't I?
If happy little bluebirds fly Beyond the rainbow Why, oh why can't I?
Beautiful Poem / Chelle Wilkinson (Mom) Lighting of the Candles Used in Candlelight Memorial Services
As we light these five candles in honor of our loved ones, We light one for our grief, One for our courage, one for our memories, One for our love, and one for our hope.
The first candle represents our grief. The pain of losing our children is intense. It reminds us of the depth of our love for them.
The second candle represents our courage. To confront our sorrow, To comfort each other, To change our lives.
We light this third candle in their memory, Remembering the times we laughed, the times we cried, The times we were angry with each other. The silly things they did, And the caring and joy they gave us.
The fourth candle is the light of love. It reminds us of our love for them and memories that will last forever. We cherish the special place in our hearts That will always be reserved for them. We are grateful for the gift their lives brought to us.
We light the fifth candle, to honor the men and women Who are involved in war. The war may be on foreign battle fields, Or the way may be in their homeland, Or it may be within, an invisible enemy that has the potential to destroy. We acknoweldge their struggle and hope for peace to all.
And the 6th candle is the light of hope. We light this candle that their lights may always shine. May the glow of the flame be a source of hopefulness. Now and forever. We love them. We remember them. Close
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